May 19, 2009

Learning is a Never Ending Journey

The older I get the more I learn about myself. Even tho I don't want to ever get rid of anything I am learning that the more I hold on to, the harder it is to let go. My relationship with my Mom has always been a strained one and I never understood why. I want everyone to be absolutely certain and without a doubt that I love Mother!!! However, I can only like her as much as she will let me. There's that learning thing...as much as she will let me... She's never been very forgiving, loving, happy or friendly for that matter.





I like being happy!!!! ;o) That's where the learning comes in. I can't live to please someone that doesn't want to be pleased. I have learned to surround myself with people and things that make ME happy.







Forgiveness is not pretending it didn't happen; It is letting go and learning to live freely.

'nough said







46 comments:

Karen said...

You are so right, Kae. There are those in life who, no matter what you do, they will never be happy. It is a sad thing when people are like this, but you cannot let them destroy your life. Love them, but live your own life, and be HAPPY.
Hugs~
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Mari said...

I would say you've got it right, and you do a good jhob at living your life being happy!

Darla said...

good advice! i have learned this lesson with some people too. you do have to move on and surround yourself with the ones that make you happy, like your blog friends! hehe. great post! love ya Kae!

Oh Sew Good said...

It's just sad when those "people" are your parents. It just doesn't add up sometimes, huh? (((hugs))) I'm happy to hear that you can still be happy despite the opinions of those around you.

Just Be Real said...

Kae, appreciate your honesty and transparentcy. Thank you for sharing your blog! You are headed in the right direction! Blessings.

Nancy said...

Oh Kae, life gives us many challenges but you seem to face them head on and always with determination to make the best out of it.. ((((Hugs))))

Deb said...

You are a beautiful woman inside and out my friend and I am truly happy to know you!! Your mom can learn from you, I learn from my daughters some times and it's refreshing to my soul:) God Bless You:)

Sandra said...

This is a great post and I have to say it struck me because I have the same kind of relationship with my mother.

Shauna said...

I am new here! What a great blog :)

Oh Sew Good said...

"We" haven't heard from you in awhile. I 'm just checking in to make sure you're alright. So, you doin' alright?

Lisa said...

I am in the same situation. If my Mom and I get close she will put up walls or say something to hurt me so I want get to close to her. All we can do is try. I do not intend on letting her ruin my life. I will be happy. Thank you for sharing what many of us feel.
Love ya Lisa

Connie said...

I just came across your blog for the first time. Some people do not have the skills to become close to people. They are so afraid that someone will not love them that they are mean to you before you can be mean to them. If they could only see that most people do not want to be mean but want to love. We really have to feel sorry for them but we must not them change your life. Blessings.

Oh Sew Good said...

You haven't blogged in a long while. I hope everything is alright and you're back to blogging soon.

Darla said...

Hi Kae! it was so good to hear from you again! made my day! :D yes, i have had a busy summer with lots of reflection and growth i should say haha. those pictures of your girls on the sidebar are so pretty! ok, now i am waiting for another post from you, let us all know how you are doin k? love ya!

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forgiveness is very important!
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SharonB said...

Hey Kae, God brought you to mind and I realized I haven't visited in a long time! It's been so busy I've had so little time to read my favorite blogs. So I thought I'd pop over to see what you are up to and see you haven't written since May.

I pray you are well! Love you dear sister!

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forgiving is when you actually forgotten the feeling you have way back then..but not forget what had happen...
there are times when i ask my self..this was what happened before but the feeling of hurt or disappointment were lost...

truly you have forgiven

and you know what...i don't try to find myself on others...

each is unique in different way..and never change that unique quality of each we encountered along the way.

Bless you...

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